1. Who Is “That Girl”? 💼☕🧘♀️
“That Girl” is the embodiment of discipline, structure, and glow-up energy. She wakes up before sunrise, journals every morning, drinks green smoothies, and follows a Pinterest-worthy lifestyle.
The That Girl Aesthetic: Minimal, Luxe, and Chic
✔ Early morning routines (5 AM workouts, matcha lattes, and meditation)
✔ Minimalist, neutral-toned outfits (sleek activewear, oversized blazers, gold jewelry)
✔ A perfectly curated lifestyle (decluttered spaces, digital detoxes, self-improvement books)
✔ Disciplined habits (meal prepping, gratitude journaling, weekly goal setting)
🔑 Tip: Want to feel like That Girl after your shower? Slip into the Coomfie Bow Set, sleek, feminine, and effortlessly elegant.
The That Girl Mindset: Hustle, Growth & Glow-Up
More than just an aesthetic, That Girl is a mindset. It’s about:
✅ Prioritizing self-care but in a disciplined way
✅ Setting goals and actually achieving them
✅ Curating a lifestyle that makes you feel empowered
💡 That Girl Affirmations:
✨ "I am in control of my life and my success."
✨ "I wake up every day with purpose and clarity."
✨ "I take care of my body, mind, and soul daily."
2. Who Is the Soft Girl? 🎀🍓🦋
On the flip side, the Soft Girl movement is all about slow living, gentle self-care, and embracing femininity. While That Girl thrives on structure, Soft Girl romanticizes the little moments in life.
The Soft Girl Aesthetic: Cozy, Pastel, and Dreamy
✔ Flowy dresses, oversized sweaters, and pastel colors
✔ Romanticizing daily life (picnics, poetry, handwritten letters)
✔ Soft, cozy spaces (fairy lights, fluffy blankets, vintage decor)
✔ Gentle self-care rituals (bubble baths, painting, listening to indie music)
🔑 Tip: The Coomfie Cloud 9 Set is perfect for Soft Girls, it’s ultra-soft, cozy, and effortlessly cute.
The Soft Girl Mindset: Self-Love & Emotional Well-Being
Unlike That Girl, Soft Girl doesn’t focus on hustle culture. Instead, she:
✅ Listens to her emotions and honors rest
✅ Practices self-love without guilt
✅ Finds beauty in slowness and softness
💡 Soft Girl Affirmations:
✨ "I deserve to slow down and enjoy life."
✨ "Rest is productive."
✨ "I embrace softness, love, and joy every day."
3. That Girl vs. Soft Girl: Do You Have to Choose? 🤔
Here’s the best part: You don’t have to pick one.
Some days, you wake up in full That Girl mode, hitting the gym, drinking a matcha latte, and knocking tasks off your to-do list. Other days, you just want to embrace Soft Girl energy, cozying up with a book, baking cookies, and staying in pajamas all day.
✔ Morning in That Girl mode? The Bow Set will keep you looking polished and chic.
✔ Soft Girl evening? Slip into the Cloud 9 Set and romanticize your self-care night.
🔑 Balance is the key. Life is about knowing when to hustle and when to rest.
4. How to Blend Both Mindsets for the Ultimate Glow-Up ✨
If you love both aesthetics, here’s how you can combine them in your daily routine:
4.1 Your "That Girl x Soft Girl" Morning Routine 🌞
⏰ 7:00 AM: Wake up and stretch. (That Girl)
🫖 7:30 AM: Make a cup of tea in your favorite mug. (Soft Girl)
📖 8:00 AM: Journal and set intentions for the day. (That Girl)
💖 8:30 AM: Play your favorite relaxing playlist and enjoy a slow morning. (Soft Girl)
4.2 Your "That Girl x Soft Girl" Evening Routine 🌙
🧘♀️ 8:00 PM: Skincare & meditation. (That Girl)
🍓 8:30 PM: Cozy up in the Cloud 9 Set and read a novel. (Soft Girl)
💭 9:00 PM: Reflect on daily achievements. (That Girl)
🛌 9:30 PM: Fall asleep to soft music. (Soft Girl)
5. The Final Takeaway: Be the Best Version of YOU 💖
You don’t have to choose between That Girl and Soft Girl.
✨ Some days, you're disciplined and productive. Other days, you embrace rest and softness. Both are powerful.
✨ The key is balance, knowing when to push yourself and when to slow down.
✨ Your self-care journey is YOURS.
And whatever your vibe is today, Coomfie has the perfect loungewear for you.
➡ Shop the Bow Set for your That Girl moments, sleek, polished, and effortlessly stylish.
➡ Snuggle into the Cloud 9 Set for your Soft Girl days, cozy, dreamy, and aesthetic AF.
So, bestie, are you That Girl, Soft Girl… or a little bit of both? 🌷💼✨
